DAY ONE          
No Driver, 1/4 tank of gas, sway bars connected:
Ride Height         Ride Height
25.125 Left Front 742 680 Right Front 25.33
25.875 Left Rear 653 699 Right Rear 26
  50.2 1395 1379 49.7  
    Total: 2774    
  (RF + LF)/ttl weight Cross: 1333 48.0%  
  (LF + LR)/ttl weight Left Side: 1395 50.2%  
  (LF + RF)/ttl weight Front: 1422 51.2%  
           
With Driver, 1/4 tank of gas, sway bars connected:
  Left Front 818 687 Right Front  
  Left Rear 742 736 Right Rear  
  52.3 1560 1423 47.7  
    Total: 2982    
  (RF + LF)/ttl weight Cross: 1428 47.8%  
  (LF + LR)/ttl weight Left Side: 1560 52.2%  
  (LF + RF)/ttl weight Front: 1506 50.4%  
Raising the ride-height at one corner increases the weight on that corner, as well as the diagonally opposite corner; the other two corners will lose weight.   So since my right rear is the highest AND the heaviest, i think lowering it will really help with the numbers. and left front is heavier than right front, so that same change (lowering right rear) will also help the front become closer to equal.
Cross: if cross is over 50% = "wedge". If under = "reverse wedge". Reverse wedge = turns left better but pushes going right….I think
helpful links:
http://www.longacreracing.com/articles/art.asp?artid=1
http://www.longacreracing.com/articles/art.asp?artid=14
http://www.hotrod.com/howto/113_0309_corner_weights_correction/index.html
http://www.grmotorsports.com/news/012005/understanding-corner-weights.php
DAY TWO:  
First Adjustment: I was told motion ratio was .6, so I took a guess on how many turns to lower the rear coilovers. There are about 10-12 rotations per inch. I took a guess to lower the Left Rear 5 turns and the Right Rear 6 turns, and it turned out perfect. Ride height at every corner is now 25.25 inches. Rear sway bar is disconnected but front is still connected. Still 1/4 tank of gas and I will put more in tomorrow night. That will improve the distributions I believe.
No Driver, 1/4 tank of gas, front sway bar connected, rear disconnected:
Ride Height         Ride Height
25.25 Left Front 708 714 Right Front 25.25
25.25 Left Rear 688 660 Right Rear 25.25
  50.30% 1396 1374 49.70%  
    Total: 2770    
  (RF + LF)/ttl weight Cross: 1400 50.5%  
  (LF + LR)/ttl weight Left Side: 1394 50.3%  
  (LF + RF)/ttl weight Front: 1422 51.3%  
           
With Driver, 1/4 tank of gas, front sway bar connected, rear disconnected:
  Left Front 787 722 Right Front  
  Left Rear 776 691 Right Rear  
  52.50% 1563 1413 47.70%  
    Total: 2977    
  (RF + LF)/ttl weight Cross: 1494 50.2%  
  (LF + LR)/ttl weight Left Side: 1565 52.5%  
  (LF + RF)/ttl weight Front: 1506 50.6%  
 
  Before Adjustment After Adjustment
Cross: 47.8% 50.2%
Left Side: 52.2% 52.5%
Front: 50.4% 50.6%
DAY THREE:  
weight gain
1/4 tank gas 2767
added 4.5 gallons 2797 30
added 4.5 gallons 2825 28
No Driver, 3/4 tank of gas, front sway bar connected, rear disconnected:
Ride Height         Ride Height
25.25 Left Front 704 707 Right Front 25.25
25.25 Left Rear 725 689 Right Rear 25.25
  50.50% 1429 1396 49.50%  
    Total: 2825    
  (RF + LF)/ttl weight Cross: 1432 50.6%  
  (LF + LR)/ttl weight Left Side: 1428 50.5%  
  (LF + RF)/ttl weight Front: 1411 49.9%  
           
With Driver, 3/4 tank of gas, front sway bar connected, rear disconnected:
  Left Front 775 715 Right Front  
  Left Rear 812 730 Right Rear  
  52.10% 1587 1445 47.90%  
    Total: 3033    
  (RF + LF)/ttl weight Cross: 1534 50.4%  
  (LF + LR)/ttl weight Left Side: 1587 52.1%  
  (LF + RF)/ttl weight Front: 1498 49.2%  
No Driver, 3/4 tank of gas, both sway bars disconnected:
Ride Height         Ride Height
25.25 Left Front 717 694 Right Front 25.25
25.25 Left Rear 713 701 Right Rear 25.25
  50.60% 1430 1395 49.40%  
    Total: 2825    
  (RF + LF)/ttl weight Cross: 1406 49.8%  
  (LF + LR)/ttl weight Left Side: 1430 50.6%  
  (LF + RF)/ttl weight Front: 1410 49.9%  
           
With Driver, 3/4 tank of gas, both sway bars disconnected:
  Left Front 777 715 Right Front  
  Left Rear 811 730 Right Rear  
  52.30% 1588 1445 47.70%  
    Total: 3033    
  (RF + LF)/ttl weight Cross: 1524 50.3%  
  (LF + LR)/ttl weight Left Side: 1588 52.3%  
  (LF + RF)/ttl weight Front: 1493 49.2%